The Fourth
Sunday in Advent, Year A 2013
Isaiah 7:10-14 Psalm 24:1-2, 3-4, 5-6 Romans 1:1-7 Matthew 1:18-24
We
read almost every day about the problems in the Middle East. Seven hundred
years before the birth of Jesus there were problems in Syria as there are now.
Isaiah in our first reading, however, mentioned that God would keep the Jewish
people safe. God would give their king a son who would help them to come back
to life as usual. Matthew, in the gospel I just read, indicates that this son
is really Jesus. Jesus fulfilled this
promise by being born of Mary.
Although
we are 3 days away from Christmas our gospel really tells us the story so often
told about Jesus. Matthew places Joseph in the middle of the whole story. The
Gospel is Matthew’s version of how it all happened to
Joseph. Matthew has no description of the birth of Jesus, but after
the opening section of the “begots” in which all the family of David is
related, all we have is the narration of how Joseph believed the message from
an angel as did Mary.
Often
artists or painters picture Joseph as an older man. Yet, in reality The historical Joseph was a carpenter living
in Nazareth, a village of about 200 people. He was most likely a young and
vigorous person, excited about a future with a woman he loved. He was also a
very religious man and knows what the Law of God prescribes. Mary is a
teenage girl who also lived in Nazareth.
Joseph and Mary had apparently been dating and they had been engaged to
get married. Joseph finds out that Mary
was going to have a baby and he knew that he was not the father. In that
culture engagement was as much a commitment as
marriage. Being betrothed was just another way of saying that you were
engaged. It’s just that couples did not live together until they were formally
married. i would think that Mary must have told Joseph that it was by the power
of the Holy Spirit that she had conceived a child. Joseph wanted to end their relationship, but
just as he was about to leave her an angel came and made the facts clear to
him. Joseph would take Mary into his
home and would be expected to take care of their child. It would also have been
common to give Jesus the name Joseph, but Joseph was told to name the boy Jesus
which meant saviour since Jesus would save us from our sins.
Joseph
also gave Jesus his social status. That
is, Jesus, like Joseph would have David as one of his ancestors. That was important because the
Jewish people for centuries believed that the Savior would be a descendent of
King David.
As
you reflect upon the Bible story you might detect a conflict between love and
faith, between Joseph and Mary loving each other and between they believing or
trusting each other. These are the very basic conflicts that we have in any
relationship including engagement and marriage. However, the doubts of faith
and trust find a solution in genuine and spiritiual love. Joseph slowed down by
a dream lives through faith into a deeper reality. Joseph is offered the
invitation, the gift, to see beyond what is sensibly present. Faith is a way of
seeing through what can be blinding. Joseph could see only Mary’s being
pregnant and his having to separate from her. The more we love someone, the
less we find ourselves satisfied with the gift we offer them as a sign of that
love.
This
last week of Advent, with its gift-wrapping, is a prayerful time as well. God
wrapped infinite Love within the flesh of Mary. God says to each of us, “I know you; your history and I want to give you
the perfect gift. I have you in
mind and all I desire is that you
receive the Gift and all that this Gift means.”
As
with Joseph and Mary, we do not know all that this Gift means; we spend our
lives unwrapping the meaning. We celebrate our belief that the Giver, the
Sender, can not keep love hidden; it has to be offered again and again and that
is the nature of time and eternity. We can become blinded by what we expect or
perceive a gift to be. We are spending these days of Advent, not exactly asking
for signs, but just unwrapping the gift of each day and waiting for its full
meaning to be seen and received. As with Joseph and Mary we wait, watch, ponder
and receive it all as the gift it is all meant to be.
With
all the evil and suffering in our world, it is a mystery why God would want to
be with us. Of course, we know from everyday experience that we want to be with
people whom we love. So that is why God
wants to be with us. At times we may find it difficult to figure out God does
love us, especially when we don’t love
ourselves very much or when we have to face serious problems or tragedies. At those times we are tempted to feel that
God has forgotten us.But it is precisely at those times of doubt that we must believe God when he tells us: I
am with you always. There is no easy way around the fact that, like Joseph, we
too need to have a lot of faith sometimes.
And there is no easy way to have faith then to take time to pray as you
are doing right now and hopefully you do every day.